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Post by Spottedleaf ~Dapps on Jul 20, 2009 11:39:06 GMT -5
I've listened to every member and their complaints. And I've not done anything like that. See, this is exactly why I'm quitting. Dapps, stay here. I already quit and I've packed up my stuff and everything. I'm the dramatic one I guess, and I hate to ruin your good times. I don't want you to leave SP, and even if you do I'm not staying myself. Quitting on your part would just be a waste. Don't worry about me, I've got all my buddies on NS now so I'll be fine.
And you called me a he, just to let you know I'm a girl. Might have been a misspelling but just making sure.
So stay because if you quit this site will die, but I'm not staying anymore. My mind is made up, and so I'll be fully gone on Wednesday. I'm sorry to cause so much drama everyone, don't let my leave ruin your good time. But I just must say goodbye now.
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Post by .:-Aikoa-:. on Jul 20, 2009 11:43:39 GMT -5
(Wow I feel totally rejected but anyway that's besides the point)
Anyways, no one wants you to leave Dapps and no one wants Bramble to leave either (I will personally preform a Taekwondo handstrike and crush their nose in if they do). Ok I'm going to take full responsibility! Seriously. It's MY fault, Ok? MINE. ALL MINE. If I had been a good Head Admin I would have spoken up more but I DIDN'T, Ok? Bramble ran a few things by me and I basically just said "Yeah sure do whatever you want", and I agreed with several different things and so SHE'S NOT TO BLAME, OK? Whatever idiots have been giving her grief about all of this, I GAVE HER THE FREAKIN' PERMISSION OK!?!? I basically told her to DO WHATEVER THE HECK SHE WANTS! So if anyone should be demoted or kicked off the site it's freakin ME ok?! And maybe I should just leave since no one cares anyway, I'll just go. I'm the instigator and it's my fault for being such a cruddy leader, you should freaking THANK Bramble for all she's done for this site when it WASN'T her freakin responsibility it was MINE. So whatever! Blame ME all you haters because it's MY FAULT not Bramble's. MINE. MINE MINE MINE MINE MINE!!! Ok!?!?! Mine. No one else's. M.I.N.E.!!
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Post by Dapps on Jul 20, 2009 11:45:18 GMT -5
I don't want you to leave. This whole entire thing is completely my fault. I came back and started right off the bat making desicions... I didn't want to do that, all of you should know that.
I really don't want you to leave...and you know I can't join any site until I have a computer of my own. I was just explaining what I had problems with. The only three things I had a problem with was that 1)you didn't run things by Lion, 2) you didn't listen to members (tell me if you did and i'd gladly take everything about that off), and 3) you took my account... that's it. I am so happy with what you did to the site, Bramble. It never would've happened without you.
Please don't go.
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Post by Dapps on Jul 20, 2009 11:47:11 GMT -5
is that true? (asking both Bramble and Lion)
Lion, it's not your fault that you think your a bad leader... you should've told me if you didn't think you could've handled SP before I left. ...then again if I hadn't had to leave in such a freakin hurry, then none of this would've happened cuz I would've had time to choose better...
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Post by .:-Aikoa-:. on Jul 20, 2009 11:49:02 GMT -5
I just said she did. She RAN THINGS BY ME (not EVERYTHING but a lot of things) and she listened just fine most of the time. And the account was a misunderstanding. There we go no problems. >
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Post by Spottedleaf ~Dapps on Jul 20, 2009 11:50:02 GMT -5
It is true what Des said. And I did listen to members. And the account was a misunderstanding.
But it's not just that. For months people have been stepping on my tail and calling me names and yelling at me and so now I've had enough. I just hope you can understand and let me go.
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Post by Dapps on Jul 20, 2009 11:49:33 GMT -5
Read what I just said above, Lion.
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Post by Dapps on Jul 20, 2009 11:52:29 GMT -5
huh...ok Bramble. I am so sorry. I have no hard feelings, no sad ones, no more angry ones, nothing but guilt. I completely forgive you now. I just wish that someone would've said all this before I made that stupid post...
Bramble, I truely am sorry and if you wish to leave, now. I will let you leave peacefully.
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Post by Spottedleaf ~Dapps on Jul 20, 2009 11:55:31 GMT -5
Thank you Dappsy. I'll miss you and hope that once you get a computer you'll come find me at New Skies. I'll miss everybody here but there are a few members who have just hurt me one too many times. Spreading rumors and calling names both behind my back and to my face. So please forgive me for leaving, but I just can't take it anymore. And I'm glad you can understand that.
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Post by Spottedleaf ~Dapps on Jul 20, 2009 12:22:22 GMT -5
I feel this represents this site's effect on me:
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Post by flameh on Jul 20, 2009 17:06:40 GMT -5
If this is anyone's fault it's mine. I told Dapps some things that Bramble did but I never wanted bramble to leave.
I know you've made your mind up but i'd just like to say that you've done some great things with the site and I hope your site does well. I'm gunna miss you, you were a great member and friend and i'm sorry.
I'd also like to say if anyone should leave, it should be me, i was just trying to help the site but instead i've made it worse. Maybe i'll leave
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Post by Snowlily on Jul 22, 2009 9:48:50 GMT -5
Ok, I'm just going to make a list of the problems Dapps had with Bramble: -
Bramble didn't listen to members
[[half the members of the site are quitting because she's leaving, so I think that demonstrates that she did listen to them]]
... really bring myself to come back if you weren't here (considering no one else really cares about my stupid plots... -.-)
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Bramble didn't run things by the Head Admin appointed by Dapps (Lion)
She RAN THINGS BY ME (not EVERYTHING but a lot of things)
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Bramble took her account
And the account was a misunderstanding.
Blimey, they got suddenly solved. Now, the problems Bramble has with the site: - People have been calling her names.
Huh. That's awfully brief. Wow, who would think that anyone would call Bramble, the smart, talented, active, super creative, and kind person anything bad? Oh I don't know... Perhaps someone satiated with jealousy? Or maybe someone without much of a live? Yes, maybe. Maybe a very pathetic individual insulted Bramble. Now, why does Bramble feel offended, when she is so truly intelligent, and whoever insulted her is just a piece of scum? Hmm, beats me. But if I were Bramble, I'm sure I'd pay no attention to whoever is so pathetically jealous. And because Bramble quits, a bunch of other people follow her and the site goes to the dump. That's a really nice way to go. That deserves an ovation. Well done members of SP! You've really done it this time! A month from today I am almost certain the site will be deleted. Thank you Bramble, thanks a lot to you to. You went down and you bought the entire site with you. And even though everyone is apologizing like crazy and even though the site is going to the dumpster in less than a week, you still don't care because you became too offended by whatever idiocy you heard from a herd of cretins. But no, you won't listen to the good people who absolutely adore you and who would literally die if you left (me included). Nice going.
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Post by flameh on Jul 22, 2009 10:25:25 GMT -5
-blink blink- Wow Winter, you've got some great points there. This site was once full of loyal, carefree, fun loving members that lived for this site but now because 1 members leaves, they all leave. Most of you were great friends and members and now you just up and leave. All I can say is I wonder where all there loyalty and love went for the site.
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Post by .:-Aikoa-:. on Jul 22, 2009 10:49:37 GMT -5
Well I never said I was going, just that I probably should ^.^ Not like I can do anything anyway. I suck at everything I do. But oh well, enough about me. Snow you do have quite a point, I must say. There's really nothing but inflamed tempers in our way and a bunch of idiots who go around saying things that aren't true. -.- Why I oughta smack 'em across the nose! *glowers*
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Post by Dapps on Jul 22, 2009 11:31:23 GMT -5
You know something... Snow is absolutely right. About everything, about me and about Bramble. All I have to say is why couldn't anyone just say that in the first place!!? this probably never would have happened if people would have stepped up and told the truth. ok, my little rant is over but seriously, this whole thing could have been avoided if certain people (me included, especially me in fact) had just calmly assecced the situation and dealt with it calmly. for that I am sorry but I did try to find answers that no one was telling me for at least five days before I even thought about writing that post. for that and this, I am sorry. I just destroyed the site I love so dearly.
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Post by Anynomous Friend on Jul 24, 2009 16:56:29 GMT -5
Why is it our friendships always fail? ' Why is there never sun, only hail? Can't you see the problems caused? When words of anger are aroused? Never listening, hardly caring, What happened to the sharing? We had a bad day, we'd come here. Now theres only hurt and fear. Why must there be someone to blame? Why must someone leave in shame? Why can't calm communication, Lead us to cooperation. Friendships not meant to last in sun, but in storms as well as fun. We all are good, and want whats best So why can't we lay these troubles to rest?
-A concerned member, who is too scared to post this while logged in. NOT Bramble, Dapps, or Lion though.
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Post by Anynomous Friend on Jul 24, 2009 17:07:06 GMT -5
Oh, and I just thought of something else. Lets imagine for a minute (because this is possible) that suddenly, someone who was friends with everyone and wasn't involved in this fight decided to check to see how everyone was. HOPING, PRAYING to find old friends having fun and getting along. Now lets look back at this little discussion and pretend that's what the someone found. No offense, but it certainly doesn't appeal to me. And I'm sure it doesn't appeal to guests either. So lets pretend that that someone (who btw, is typing this) decided it wasn't worth trying to come back with all the fighting because there's enough of that in the world. Just wondering if ya'll care how this looks. Same person who wrote the poem, btw. Miss you all... at least when your not fighting.
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Post by .:-Aikoa-:. on Jul 24, 2009 20:46:02 GMT -5
Gafffah! Now you've got me in tears! Not fair! Anyway, I've decided that no matter what Spottedleaf's Prophecy must not die! I will not leave for suredly, and I will work hard to make sure the happy air we once enjoyed here has been restorted! Let us work our hardest and triumph over the tribulations of this solemn hour! We shall not fall to the wayside, we shall stand and fight (*cough* or write, that works too...) WE WILL NOT DIE! Bwahahahahahahaaa! *overexcited now*
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